Anyone that have felt betrayed at one point or another in life would understand how painful it can be. we just found out today that someone we truly trusted with all our hearts betrayed that trust. I was very upset and am actually still upset.
How do people live with themselves? How can people just take advantage of others especially when they know deep in their hearts how much you have helped them over and over again. I mean, whatever happened to just common decency, how about the basic life values? Honesty.Integrity.Trust.loyalty…etc
All i can do right now is just pray, just to keep me from exploading with anger.
It is one thing to ask for help and receive it, but to go stand in a crowd of those close to you and just lie about it, or how much help you got and just tournish other people’s names is just plain selfish! I mean as we get older, many things change. Families grow larger, we find ourselves opening up our hearts. letting our guards down, and letting more people in our inner circle and simply love them.
I am the type of person that if i like someone, i like them wholeheartedly. I am the type of friend that treat friends like family. I would give my friends and family anything they truly need, if i could. Then there is the other side. Once that trust is gone, that’s usually it for me.
I grew up watching my mother giving soo much, over and over again, but seeing people betray her all the time, but she would just take that all in. I could see her hurting, but she never said anything . I don’t think i could say that about myself, in this situation…I would gladly say, i am my father’s daughter. My father doesn’t get stung twice.
If you have people in your life that love you, make sacrifices for you, are willing to go without so you can have in abundance…Don’t take advantage of that, the list you could do is let the rest of the people around you know how lucky you are to have such people in your life! Just be honest!
Huh, I feel much better now. Thanks for lending me an ear!
4 comments
Comment by Beatrice Siteyian on August 29, 2010 at 1:46 am
Sophy, its life. thats the way it has always been,but we have to move on regardless the situation. the best we can do is learn from that experience and of course ‘once bitten twice shy’. let it go and put that smile in that beautiful face.
Comment by Beatrice Siteyian on August 29, 2010 at 1:47 am
and hey, B is for Beautiful!
Comment by Sophia on August 29, 2010 at 11:09 pm
very true.
Comment by Sophia on August 29, 2010 at 11:09 pm