Archive for October 14th, 2009

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Jon Gosselin Ordered to Give Back $180,000

Every website that i read, every  news i watch, there is Jon and Kate’s divorce saga, and i ask myself what about the kids?

I don’t care how bad your spouse is, when you have kids together, you can’t go and announce to the whole world how much you hate and despise your spouse.  Your kids love you both, regardless of the drama in your life, they probably need to hear more from both parents as assurance that regarless of how bad things will get that they can always come back and talk to either mom or dad about it.

So Jon apparently cleaned out their bank account…This is more reason why married people should still have separate accounts.  Should people decide to have a joint account, be sure  it is a percentage of your money going in there not all of it. Like financial experts or your own parents would say,  It is money be smart about it! 

Some  people get so angry at each other that they forget about the impact their actions would have on their children.  Since they have 12  bank accounts between them, i hope the 8 accounts are for their children. Everyone in that family was making money not just Jon and Kate, and so hopefully Jon didn’t clean out the money that would have been for those 8 children as well.

Jon and Kate,  I am sure you won’t care what i have to say,  but of course , i will still say it … since  both of you have made up your mind to divorce, mind your kids and play civil. Words spoken can never be taken back, so tread smoothly, those children didn’t ask for this. Be the parents first, then  exes behind closed doors, goodluck!

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There are a lot of  benefits to breastfeeding, and  the one above is one of the more reasons why a mother’s milk is truly good for the baby.

Research conducted on kids exclusively breastfed for at least 6 months show high IQs.  Brain development here May be directly related to the emotional bonding during breastfeeding or the fatty acids in mothers milk.

The  McGill study links breastfeeding to increased intelligence, and this is  what  they reported  “The children’s cognitive ability was assessed by IQ tests administered by the children’s pediatricians and by their teachers’ ratings of their academic performance in reading, writing, mathematics and other subjects. Both sets of measures were significantly higher in the group randomized to the breastfeeding promotion intervention.

“The effect of breastfeeding on brain development and intelligence has long been a popular and hotly debated topic,” says Dr. Kramer. “While most studies have been based on association, however, we can now make a causal inference between breastfeeding and intelligence – because of the randomized design of our study.”

for more on this study go to :

http://esciencenews.com/articles/2008/05/05/mcgill.study.links.breastfeeding.increased.intelligence

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Eli- My teether!!!

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For those who know my father, Eli here does really resemble him.LOL. He was eying his teether and had that look on his face, we just had to give it to him. Julian came from the barbar shop, he needed a hair cut.

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Mommy and Eli

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My husband took this picture and looking at it all i could say was, i didn’t even have any makeup on! LOL. Women, the things we pick on ourselves! We come in different colors, sizes, shapes, and yeah the different personalities too. Sometimes we drive everyone crazy, heck even ourselves. We all are special and unique, and have many flaws.  The flaws, imperfections, and all those differences that others see in us  are what make us who we are. To everyone who think less of themselves,  i tell you,  love every part of your being, embrace your body and spirit, greet the world with a big smile on yourself. Be confident, trust me, people see that, and again love yourself so you can love the other people in your life. There is more of you than those flaws, when you look in the mirror this morning, tell that face looking right at you.. Here i come world, and there’s no stopping me!

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Julian – I want to hold the baby

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Julian wants to hold his baby brother all the time, but he is getting too heavy for him. Here he wanted to hold him, so the Boppy came to the rescue. They love each other, and  we see more bonding daily, and yes it is much better than the alternative.

 

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Eli and Julian

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